Breaking New Year’s resolutions

In which I already start breaking my New Year’s resolutions.

Starting to write a list of resolutions

It’s the first week of January which means it is the traditional time to break all the resolutions that were set a few days ago. Already I’m doing less exercise and treating vegetables as the enemy.

I’m trying to recall actually making a proper resolution to keep, one of the big “I am going to change my life” resolutions like finding love or learning Klingon. Or even something as absurd as taking up running and eating humus. However I can’t recall making a single one of these promises.

I am always confused as to why people determine that they will change their lives based upon the arbitrary date chosen to start a new calendar.

Is there a difference to your willpower from the 31st December to the 1st January, what is it about the changing of the year that makes people decide that this is now the point at which they are going to the gym or to sort out their lives?

I would think that the science behind keeping a New Year’s Resolution would show that you are more likely to fail at a life changing pledge if you select a start date as opposed to just doing it when you first think of it. Surely you would be more successful at exercising if one Tuesday in June you just decided to start going to the gym or running around the park.

In effect by marking the beginning of the year as a new start you are writing off any chance for improvement for the rest of the year. If on November 7th you decide that you are going to make a concerted effort to go on more dates won’t this just mean you are not going to try for the next seven or so weeks? In my experience putting something off once just means you will put it off time and time again.

Just like a puppy a New Year’s Resolution is not just for the festive period, real life change is not just a flash in the pan with a half-hearted attempt to learn to knit or start saving for a house. It’s hard work to break habits and by choosing to use a method which is notorious for broken promises and not being taken seriously it is surely a set-up for failure.

So rather than making resolutions (which as the United Nations shows are unenforceable and ineffective) set goals, aim to do something by June or October. It gives you more time to recover from any setbacks and won’t make you feel like a failure should you open that bar of chocolate later today.

Here are my goals for 2016.

Have you ever made a New Year’s Resolution that you kept?

Source: Resolved

Author: Daddysaurus

Ah, so you worked out the riddle. You just needed to use dwarfish and the doors to Geek Ergo Sum opened. Or perhaps you just used Google. Either way you are here, on my little corner of the Internet.

4 thoughts on “Breaking New Year’s resolutions”

    1. I agree, it is much harder to stop doing something that to start something new. Old habits die hard and if we try to change by punishing ourselves over the things we like it is more likely to fail.

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  1. So right about the arbitrariness of the calendar.

    ‘So rather than making resolutions (which as the United Nations shows are unenforceable and ineffective) set goals’ . . . that, too; AND I feel INTENTIONS are the most forgiving. They roll on with you; don’t hold a stick over your head; and feed upon themselves as they are realized. Thanks for the thought-provoking observations.

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