Life is a mess if you don’t try to impose a little order on it. It’s not possible to completely programme every little moment but it handy to have a set of rules.
The rules I have are not very complex, in fact most of them are copied from major religions or motivational posters, but they are the code that I try to live by (but like most rules they are there to be broken).
This is not an attempt to say that how I lead life makes me a good person, or that if you follow these rules it will make you a better person, I just think that they may be able to help.
So the rules, and none of them are going to reference Fight Club.
Rule 1 – “That” rule.
No, not ‘that’ rule but ‘the’ rule. The do unto others one. I think there is a reason it is a pretty universal and well accepted rule, it is for most people an ideal way to live your life. I mean nobody really wants to be treated badly so why would you do the same to others?
Rule 2 – Don’t make others cry.
Sometimes it is hard to follow Rule 1, and sadly there are some people who just don’t care, so I think it is important to add in an error rule that tries to capture any failures. Try not to do anything that is going to hurt someone else, this doesn’t apply to ‘telling’ them try not to do anything which means you have a guilty secret.
Rule 3 – On balance try to do more good.
None of us are saints, we can’t and won’t lead lives that are examples of perfect human beings. We all like to think that we follow moral or religious teachings but we all slip. We all judge we we shouldn’t and we all have our prejudices. So Rule 3 is about balancing that by trying to be better than that. This isn’t a “you gave money to charity so you can hit a dog” kind of deal, follow Rules 1 & 2 so you don’t do that.
Rule 4 – Do your best.
Even if you fail at all others, just try.
In response to The Daily Post’s writing prompt: “I Walk the Line.”